Children this days especially teens are currently indulging themselves in some heinous act.
While parents and guardians are left in a state of confusion without knowing what to and how to do.
Some are blaming this act on the government, some are blaming the society while others are blaming the parent.
This are the role they all play.
In recent years, advocates of limited government in both the developed and developing worlds have gained significant traction, arguing that large bureaucracies feed inefficiency and corruption, stifle initiative, and interfere with personal privacy. Yet, there is at least one area (likely more), in which that passion for limited government may well be misplaced: the need to guarantee the successful development of children.
Why should the government be involved in raising children, an area that by definition would seem to be a parental responsibility? There are at least five good reasons for government intervention in what is instinctively a family affair:
- Children have their own legal identities and interests—separate from their parents’—worthy of protection. The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, signed by 194 nations, compels states to guarantee their well-being. They are individuals with legal rights and are equal before any law and policy.
- The well-being of children affects not only them and their families but society as a whole. Children who flourish in the early years are more likely to become productive citizens and contribute to a prosperous economy and participatory democracy. An investment in a child’s well-being generates returns over the long term and affects the prosperity and viability of society well into the future.
- Parents don’t always make the appropriate sacrifices for their children. Families with limited resources face competing priorities such as investing in the family business, buying clothes, or sending their child to school or a doctor. Putting a young son or daughter first in that context may involve forfeiting current needs for rewards whose full benefits will be reaped by the child only when he is an adult, whether in professional abilities or health. Unfortunately, some parents are neither patient nor altruistic enough to make those sacrifices.
- Parents sometimes lack the information needed to make the right decisions. They sometimes fail to grasp the link between early childhood experiences and positive outcomes in later life. The importance of daycare is a classic example. Children from low-income families randomly assigned in the 1970s to high-quality daycare in North Carolina were less likely to drop out of high school and more likely to attend a four-year college at 21. But poor parents who aren’t aware of daycare’s vital role may fail to take advantage of the opportunity, even when they have the interests of their child at heart.
- Parents don’t always have the resources to invest in their children. Consider medical procedures. A child with cataracts may need an operation for his eyesight to develop normally. The operation could save the child from serious eyesight problems that would affect his well-being and productivity as an adult. To pay for such an operation, however, the child’s parents need cash in hand or the ability to borrow it. Capital markets might not provide the parents with money today in exchange for some of the future returns resulting from investing in the child.
Children are not raised by their parents alone—nor should they be. It is a far too important and difficult task to be placed solely on the shoulders of a mother and/or father. Relatives, other caregivers, teachers and government also have a hand in molding the experiences children accumulate at home, in daycare centers, at school and in society at large. Improving those experiences will shape children’s lives and the face of the societies they live in for years to come. Clearly, child well-being matters for both ethical and economic reasons and public policy has a vital role to play in developing happy, healthy and well-educated children who grow into socially and economically productive adults.
The role of public policy in raising children is the focus of the 2015 edition of the IDB’s flagship series, Development in the Americas, entitled The Early Years: Child Well-being and the Role of Public Policy.
The Society plays a huge role in molding teens’ behavior, character and attitude. It determines how they see other people, their general outlook, and their ethics. You as parents can influence all these things as well, but the things that will stick with the kids for long haul are learned from the society. Now society comprises of a lot of different things that include media, neighborhood, laws, and school. Let’s briefly go through how these components influence the mindset and behavior of teens, and shape them into the kind of people that eventually grow up to become.
i. The Impact of Media on Teens
Media has really expanded these days. Now it’s available in the form of films, TV, video games, social networking platforms, radio, etc. They all play a huge role in shaping up your teens. If the latter see violence all over the news against people of one race, then they might grow sympathetic towards them, or spiteful towards the oppressors. However, if the same news channels start to show those same victims as the bad people, then they will most likely develop a strong hatred for every individual in that race. That’s how racism has managed to stay around for so long. There’s a feeling of superiority in some societies and it’s generated solely by the media. Teens form their opinions based on what they see on the media, and their behavior is guided by these opinions.
ii. The Effect of Crime in Society on Teens
The rate of crime and how law enforcement reacts to it also play an important role in affecting the behavior and mindset of teens. If kids find crime to be prevalent around them, then they may accept it as something normal, and might even indulge in it eventually. However, things can be entirely different if the situation of law enforcement is better in the neighborhood. If teens see criminals getting punished for their crimes, then they will know that walking down the wrong path has its consequences, and thus refrain from making a similar choice. Both of these scenarios are triggered by society, while you don’t have a huge role to play in this.
iii. The Influence of School and Peers on Teens
Schools also play a huge role in shaping up the mindset and character of teens. They meet all sorts of people there, and in many cases it’s their friendships that determine how they turn out. Good, caring, and civil friends will improve the overall behavior of the kids, whereas bad company can ruin them. They can get addicted to drugs, alcohol, and even get involved in petty crimes.
Just because society plays a huge role in shaping up the behavior, mindset, and character of your teen doesn’t mean that you simply sit idle. You have a responsibility to nurture the positive effect of society, while discourage any negative impact. At the end of the day, what kind of person your teen grows up to be depends just as much on your parenting as it does on the society.
Parents play a pivotal role in their children’s life. They are the pillars of support, guidance, and love. Family is where life begins and love never ends. No matter how old a child gets there’s nothing more comforting and soothing than their parent’s arms.
The role of parents in a child’s life is beyond the idea of prompting.
Parenting takes action long before a child’s birth and eventually parents become their children’s alter ego and vice-versa. There is nobody like them who can shape and mould a child’s behavior and development.
So parents should never seize to inspire and assist their children and thereby parents should strive to be the best teacher in their child’s life.
Maintaining a good Parent-Child relationship is the first step towards wise parenting. Right from the birth of their offspring, parents should be aware of the enormous reliability and accountability in their child’s life.
Studies show that a foetus’ character development is succumbed by the alterations in its mother’s thoughts during pregnancy. Not giving the proper guidance and love can seriously affect a child’s life and can have serious impacts that will lead to character defects.
The parent is the child’s first teacher and will remain a consistent mentor in a child’s life.
What is the role of Parents in a Child’s life?
1. To develop skills
Parenting is a never-ending skill. Once you sign for it there’s no looking back. You will have to take charge and make the most of your time. Parenting and child development are in a symbiotic relationship.
When one flourishes, the other automatically finds balance. And this is the basic rule of every parent-child relationship.
Parents contribute to the cognitive, socio-cultural, physical, mental, and spiritual development of an individual. Parental values and expertise play a vital role in the healthy upbringing of a child in all these areas.
2. The foundation of all beliefs
The profile of cognitive abilities, beliefs, ethical values, coping defenses, and salient emotional moods that characterize each child at each developmental stage is the result of diverse influences operating in complex ways.
Most students of human development agree that the most important determinants of the different profiles include the inherited physiologic patterns that are called temperamental qualities, parental practices and personality, quality of schools attended, relationships with peers, the ordinal position in the family, and, finally, the historical era in which late childhood and early adolescence are spent.
As children develop from infants to teens to adults, they go through a series of developmental stages that are important to all aspects of their personhood including physical, intellectual, emotional, and social.
3. Support and guidance
The proper role of the parent is to provide encouragement, support, and access to activities that enable the child to master key developmental tasks. A child’s learning and socialization are most influenced by their family since the family is the child’s primary social group. Happy parents raise happy children.
Child development lies its root in their parents. Nothing can overcome the rigidity of a child’s upbringing. A parent thereby acts as a visionary to their children.
There’s nothing worldly that comes close to the sacrifices of parenthood. What parents do for their children out of love will always have an indelible remark on the child’s life.
A child who has never ceased to receive a balanced upbringing will continue to advance for the rest of their lives.
Parents also play a major role in the self-confidence of their children. If you want to increase the self-confidence of your child, read 6 Simple Tips to Build Self-Esteem and Confidence your Child.
4. Providing a good lifestyle
Education is one of the landmarks in a child’s development. A good education will hand over a rewarding career to the person and thereby they can serve society and return its bounties.
It is imperative to know how parents influence the lives of their offspring and plays an important role in the child’s physical, mental, financial, emotional, and career development.
How can Parents become successful in their roles?
The importance of parents is something that children should comprehend involuntarily. It is not something that can be put forward as a moral or ethical question.
Studies show that apart from earlier times, contemporary parents have a higher chance of failure to maintain a good relationship with their children despite the nuclear family setups that we have these days.
Here is how you can build a successful rapport with your child.
1. Communication is the key
Be it any relationship, communication is the foundation. Talk to your child about topics other than school and studies. This helps in contributing to better bondage between both parties.
2. Engage in activities with them
You inevitably spent quality time with your loved ones. In this case, do something with your kid that is exciting for them. This will eventually help them polish their interests.
3. Apologize when you mess up
Transparent and candidness can do wonders in your relationship. Throw away your ego and apologize for your mistakes. So that the child can stand up for themselves during future endeavors.
How can parents’ actions influence their children?
A recent study shows that parents who actively interact with children help them develop crucial cognitive skills, life skills, and eventually thrive to be successful. Parents contribute to developing focus, concentration, and self-control in their children.
They also improve critical thinking, empathy, perspective, making connections, and communicating. With a supportive parent, a child never regrets taking risks and this prepares a self-directed child. Parents’ interactions have a huge impact on the child’s development, be it physical or mental.
Apart from genetic inheritance, children have a tendency to mimic their parents in almost any field. This increases the liability of a parent to be a role model for their children. The efforts from a parent’s side have great effects on their children.
Even though each child is different and special in their capabilities, parents are the ones who can shape and assist their children without fail. It is the responsibility of parents to ensure a safe and sound environment for their children.
“The attitude that you have as a parent is what your kids will learn from, more than what you tell them. They remember what you are”; these words by Jim Henson alarm us about the role of Parents in a child’s life and justifies the impact and influence of parents in a child’s life.
Parenting is sometimes about finding happiness in sacrifices. And these sacrifices will not seize to rapture you in the long run. A child with a remarkable upbringing will never fail to make their parents proud. Parents are responsible to provide the necessary food, clothing, shelter, and medical care insofar as they are able.
They are equally responsible for providing sound education and sound knowledge of their religion as well as the moral training of their children. In the same way, children are responsible to appreciate their parent’s promising efforts to ensure a good life for them.
Having said all these, parenthood is not just about sacrifice, it is also teaching your child to master their life on their own.
They should hand over responsibilities for their children so that they learn problem-solving skills at a young age. This will reduce the chances of being left out when they hit adulthood.
Parents play a pivotal role in their children’s lives and each of their actions will solely depend upon the parenting techniques adopted by their parents. Our future is our children and in order to ensure a better tomorrow, we have to train and shape our children with care and love.
So it’s imperative that every parent decode their child’s peculiarities and assist them in their overall development and thereby contributing to a better tomorrow. When a child is happy, then parents are happy.